Divorce and Alzheimer's

It's been a long time, friends, since I've posted here. For that, I am truly sorry. I have been busy with many other things, but 3M is always in the back of my mind. Prepare to have more come your way. Dad is working on a new "life lessons" series that I'm sure all will enjoy. For today, I came across this article and felt it important to share. For me, personally, my grandfather died of Alzheimer's and divorce never crossed my grandmother's mind. Why would it? God is sovereign and God is good!

A Statement by Joni Eareckson Tada on Pat Robertson's comment on Divorce and Alzheimer's

“Any marriage has its challenges, but add a serious disability and they can, at times, seem overwhelming. This is why God instituted marriage as a lifelong commitment – Heaven knows it requires vows, solemn and serious, to weather a couple through the demands of disability."

“I was dismayed when this week Pat Robertson said to a nationwide audience that Alzheimer's disease is a kind of death that makes divorce justifiable. When a Christian leader views marriage on a sliding scale, what does this say to the millions of couples who must deal daily with catastrophic injuries and illnesses?"

“At the Joni and Friends International Disability Center, we encounter thousands of couples who, despite living with serious disabling conditions, showcase the grace of God in their weakness every day. Marriage is designed to be a picture of God’s sacrificial love for us. Alzheimer’s disease is never an ‘accident’ in a marriage; it falls under the purview of God’s sovereignty. In the case of someone with Alzheimer's, this means God's unconditional and sacrificial love has an opportunity to be even more gloriously displayed in a life together!”

Idolatry

The idolatrous heart assumes that God is other than He is - in itself a monstrous sin - and substitutes for the true God one made after its own likeness. Always this God will conform to the image of the one who created it and will be base or pure, cruel or kind according to the moral state of the mind from which it emerges.

A.W. Tozer The Knowledge of the Holy

But Christ...

To the choirmaster. Of David, the servant of the LORD. Transgression speaks to the wicked deep in his heart; there is no fear of God before his eyes. For he flatters himself in his own eyes that his iniquity cannot be found out and hated. The words of his mouth are trouble and deceit; he has ceased to act wisely and do good. He plots trouble while on his bed; he sets himself in a way that is not good; he does not reject evil. Your steadfast love, O LORD, extends to the heavens, your faithfulness to the clouds. Your righteousness is like the mountains of God; your judgments are like the great deep; man and beast you save, O LORD. How precious is your steadfast love, O God! The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings. They feast on the abundance of your house, and you give them drink from the river of your delights. For with you is the fountain of life; in your light do we see light. Oh, continue your steadfast love to those who know you, and your righteousness to the upright of heart! Let not the foot of arrogance come upon me, nor the hand of the wicked drive me away. There the evildoers lie fallen; they are thrust down, unable to rise. (Psalms 36:1-12)


Do you read this and think of the enemies of God? Others; not you?


Here is what Robert Hawker had to say about this passage:

How striking is this scripture, and how true! Yes, my soul; thou needest not to look abroad into another's heart to see iniquity; for at home, in thine own, a voice may be heard continually proclaiming it. Renewed as thou art by grace, still thou feelest the workings of corrupt nature: and though, as the apostle said, "with thy mind thou thyself servest the law of God, yet with thy flesh the law of sin," Romans vii. 25. Pause over the solemn subject, and observe the working of a body of sin and death, which is virtually all sin: "the carnal mind, (the apostle saith) is enmity against God," Rom. viii.7.; not only an enemy, but in enmity: so that the very nature is so; it is averse, naturally averse to God, and is everlastingly rising in opposition to his holy law. And this not only (as some have supposed, but all men, if they would confess the truth, find to the contrary) before a work of grace hath passed upon the soul, but after....Let those who know not the plague of their own heart, talk of natural goodness; sure I am , there is nothing of the kind in me. "I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwelleth no good thing." And were it not, dearest Lord, for the holiness of thy person, blood, and righteousness, the very sins which mingle up with all I say or do, yea, even in prayer, would seal my condemnation. Lamb of God! it is the everlasting merit of thy atonement and intercession, thy blood sprinkled upon my person and offering, by which alone the justice of God is restrained and satisfied, and that it breaks not forth in devouring fire, as upon the sacrifice of old, to consume me upon my very knees! Blessed, blessed for ever be God for Jesus Christ!

Robert Hawker's The Poor Man's Morning & Evening Portion, May 10, evening.

Sinners. All of us...

...some saved, some lost. All in the hands of an Almighty God. Blessed be the Name of the Lord!

John Piper had some good words on the recent expiration of Osama bin Laden.

He writes:

In one sense, human death is not God’s pleasure:

Have I any pleasure in the death of the wicked, declares the Lord God, and not rather that he should turn from his way and live? . . . For I do not pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord God; so turn, and live. (Ezekiel 18:23, 32).

In another sense, the death and judgment of the unrepentant is God’s pleasure:

Thus shall my anger spend itself, and I will vent my fury upon them and satisfy myself. (Ezekiel 5:13]

[Wisdom calls out:] Because you have ignored all my counsel and would have none of my reproof, I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when terror strikes you. (Proverbs 1:25–26)

Rejoice over her, O heaven, and you saints and apostles and prophets, for God has given judgment for you against her! (Revelation 18:20)

As the Lord took delight in doing you good . . . so the Lord will take delight in bringing ruin upon you and destroying you. (Deuteronomy 28:63)

My suggestion is that the death and misery of the unrepentant is in and of itself not a pleasure to God. God is not a sadist. He is not malicious or bloodthirsty. The death and suffering considered for itself alone is not his delight.

Rather, when a rebellious, wicked, unbelieving person is judged, what God has pleasure in is the exaltation of truth and righteousness, and the vindication of his own honor and glory.

You can read his thoughts in entirety here.

"This is the day...

...that the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it."


Thou Lovely Source of True Delight
Anne Steele, 1760

Thou lovely Source of true delight,
Whom I unseen adore;
Unveil Thy beauties to my sight,
That I may love Thee more.

Thy glory o’er creation shines;
But in Thy sacred Word,
I read in fairer, brighter lines,
My bleeding, dying Lord.

’Tis here, whene’er my comforts droop,
And sins and sorrows rise,
Thy love with cheerful beams of hope,
My fainting heart supplies.

Jesus, my Lord, my Life, my Light,
O come with blissful ray;
Break radiant through the shades of night,
And chase my fears away.

Then shall my soul with rapture trace
The wonders of Thy love;
But the full glories of Thy face
Are only known above.


Happy Birthday, dear Dad and Brother! Have a blessed day!

Oh, To Glory in Trials

Self-reliance does not leave room for God-reliance.

God-reliance seeks no room for self-reliance.


Here is a good message preached by Clay Curtis recently. I encourage you to take some quiet time soon to listen to it.
The Glory in Trials

A Mighty Fortress

In a day of so many uncertainties, there may be difficulties of knowing where to find a solid and firm foundation.

Where can we turn during life's stormy days?
What about those times of ease and calm?

Martin Luther wrote:

"A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing;
Our helper, He amid the flood of mortal ills prevailing:"

To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David, the servant of the LORD, who spoke unto the LORD the words of this song in the day that the LORD delivered him from the hand of all his enemies, and from the hand of Saul: And he said, I will love thee, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.
(Psalms 18:1-2)

Have a good day!
Love,
Dad

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How firm a foundation, ye saints of the Lord,
Is laid for your faith in His excellent Word!
What more can He say than to you He hath said,
You, who unto Jesus for refuge have fled?

In every condition, in sickness, in health;
In poverty’s vale, or abounding in wealth;
At home and abroad, on the land, on the sea,
As thy days may demand, shall thy strength ever be.

Fear not, I am with thee, O be not dismayed,
For I am thy God and will still give thee aid;
I’ll strengthen and help thee, and cause thee to stand
Upheld by My righteous, omnipotent hand.

When through the deep waters I call thee to go,
The rivers of woe shall not thee overflow;
For I will be with thee, thy troubles to bless,
And sanctify to thee thy deepest distress.

When through fiery trials thy pathways shall lie,
My grace, all sufficient, shall be thy supply;
The flame shall not hurt thee; I only design
Thy dross to consume, and thy gold to refine.

Even down to old age all My people shall prove
My sovereign, eternal, unchangeable love;
And when hoary hairs shall their temples adorn,
Like lambs they shall still in My bosom be borne.

The soul that on Jesus has leaned for repose,
I will not, I will not desert to its foes;
That soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake,
I’ll never, no never, no never forsake.

~John Rippon, 1787

Jesus, I Come

And he said, Jesus, remember me when thou comest in thy kingdom. And he said unto him, Verily I say unto thee, Today shalt thou be with me in Paradise. And it was now about the sixth hour, and a darkness came over the whole land until the ninth hour, the sun's light failing: and the veil of the temple was rent in the midst. And Jesus, crying with a loud voice, said, Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit: and having said this, he gave up the ghost. And when the centurion saw what was done, he glorified God, saying, Certainly this was a righteous man.
(Luke 23:42-47)


Jesus, I Come
William T. Sleeper, 1887

1. Out of my bondage, sorrow and night,
Jesus, I come, Jesus, I come;
Into Thy freedom, gladness, and light,
Jesus, I come to Thee;
Out of my sickness, into Thy health,
Out of my want and into Thy wealth,
Out of my sin and into Thyself,
Jesus, I come to Thee.

2. Out of my shameful failure and loss,
Jesus, I come, Jesus, I come;
Into the glorious gain of Thy cross,
Jesus, I come to Thee;
Out of earth’s sorrows, into Thy balm,
Out of life’s storms and into Thy calm,
Out of distress to jubilant psalm,
Jesus, I come to Thee.

3. Out of unrest and arrogant pride,
Jesus, I come, Jesus, I come;
Into Thy blessed will to abide,
Jesus, I come to Thee;
Out of myself to dwell in Thy love,
Out of despair, into raptures above,
Upward for aye on wings like a dove,
Jesus, I come to Thee.

4. Out of the fear and dread of the tomb,
Jesus, I come, Jesus, I come;
Into the joy and light of Thy home,
Jesus, I come to Thee;
Out of the depths of ruin untold,
Into the peace of Thy sheltering fold,
Ever Thy glorious face to behold,
Jesus, I come to Thee.

Amen.

At the Cross

Alas, and Did My Savior Bleed
Lyrics by Isaac Watts; Music and Chorus Lyrics by Bob Kauflin

Alas and did my Savior bleed
And did my Sovereign die
Would He devote that sacred head
For such a worm as I
Was it for sins that I had done
He groaned upon the tree
Amazing pity, grace unknown
And love beyond degree

My God why would
You shed Your blood
So pure and undefiled
To make a sinful one like me
Your chosen precious child

Well might the sun in darkness hide
And shut His glories in
When Christ the mighty Maker died
For man the creature’s sin
Thus might I hide my blushing face
While His dear Cross appears
Dissolve my heart in thankfulness
And melt my eyes to tears

Listen here. (Click on the song to hear a sample. All Sovereign Grace Music on sale for $6 or less through tomorrow, February 28.)

Homeward Bound

Today is the 2 year anniversary of 3m Highway! (Thank you for your readership.) I thought a post on character and a tribute would be fitting. I think Dad would agree that the character of his sister is a great lesson for our life.

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"If at least one person has been brought to know Christ through my suffering over the past 21 years, then it has all been worth it." A quote (as I heard it) from a Godly woman, my dear Aunt Debbie.

Is there some character trait in you that stands out? Is this trait of worth? You see, there is a dominant character trait (among others) that everyone sees in Aunt Debbie and it is of a righteous worth. It is a trait of humility. It is a trait of service. It lacks self. It is, well...love.

Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not its own, is not provoked, taketh not account of evil; rejoiceth not in unrighteousness, but rejoiceth with the truth; beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Love never faileth: (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)

Of those who know my Aunt Debbie, if you take each part of the above scripture, does it not describe the mission of her life; the grace of God woven throughout her being? She has suffered long. She is so very kind and giving of herself. As far as I've known her, she has never seemed to be an envious person. She does not praise herself, nor is prideful, but she serves others quietly and humbly. She does not behave in such a way that would bring her heavenly Father, nor her earthly family, dishonor. She does not seek her own; she has always done for others and has always been genuinely interested in the lives of others. She is not easily provoked (except maybe the time that I spent with them in the summer and I refused to eat my brussel sprouts). She does not keep account of evil of others, but forgives a wrong done. However, she does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rather encourages others in holiness. Above all, she rejoices in the truth of the gospel, of Jesus Christ. She has beared much in her years of earthly suffering, all the while believing in all things, hoping in all things and enduring all things. All because she is love and has been made love by a loving and gracious God.

As I quoted in a recent post of a sermon by Don Fortner, we have all led a checkered life. It's been full of pain, disappointment, heavy burden, but it has all been meant for good. The past 20 plus years of pain, treatment, blood transfusions, elation at remission and devastation of recurrence has every single bit been meant for good. How can there be any good in such things as these? Is the good something that we can see immediately? No, not necessarily. We know that to God, a day is as a thousand years and a thousand years is as one day. We do not know the fruits of this joyful woman's plight, but I know there are some. Why do I know this? Because of God's promise. Because of God's promise of good. Because it is said in scripture that love never fails. Never means forever, even after this earthly journey comes to an end.

We do not know how many days are left for Aunt Debbie on her earthly pilgrimage. We do know that as the tears burn our cheeks at the thought of continuing on our journey without her daily encouragement, service and love, we will join her again. Afterall, all who are in Christ are homeward bound...and what a rejoicing there will be on that day.

I am so thankful to you, dear servant, wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt and friend, for blessing me (all of us) with your love that will never fail. You are amazing and we love you! I am so thankful to our precious Savior, for bestowing His righteousness on you. I am so thankful for the Holy Spirit working through you and giving you endurance on your earthly ministry. May we all have a character trait that is of worth, that brings God glory and others good, as you have.

Being therefore always of good courage, and knowing that, whilst we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord (for we walk by faith, not by sight); we are of good courage, I say, and are willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be at home with the Lord. Wherefore also we make it our aim, whether at home or absent, to be well-pleasing unto him. (2 Corinthians 5:6-9)

And he hath said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my power is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

But by the grace of God I am what I am: (1 Corinthians 15:10)

Rejoice in the Lord always: again I will say, Rejoice.
(Philippians 4:4)