Conflict Resolution

Disagreements and conflicts will always exist when there is a relationship. Whether it is husband/wife, boy/girl, parent/child, friend/friend, or between co-workers. These conflicts are a part of life.

I heard on the Christian radio station the other day some good advice. There was in Acts 15 a division between the apostle Paul and Barnabas. The lesson to learn:

1. When in a disagreement, work hard at seeing both sides, not just your own.

2. When both sides have good arguments, seek a wise compromise.

3. If conflict persist, care enough to work it through and not run.

It takes maturity to work out the conflicts which arise in relationships.

I realize that I need to take a dose of my own medicine. I'm seeking God's grace to enable me to heed to this advice.

Have a good day!
Love,
Dad


Mighty God,
I humble myself for faculties misused, opportunities neglected, words ill-advised,
I repent of my folly and inconsiderate ways, my broken resolutions, untrue service, my backsliding steps, my vain thoughts.
O bury my sins in the ocean of Jesus' blood and let no evil result from my fretful temper, unseemly behavior, provoking pettiness.
If by unkindness I have wounded or hurt another, do thou pour in the balm of heavenly consolation;
If I have turned coldly from need, misery, grief, do not in just anger forsake me:
If I have withheld relief from penury and pain, do not withhold thy gracious bounty from me.
If I have shunned those who have offended me, keep open the door of thy heart to my need.

Fill me with an over-flowing ocean of compassion, the reign of love my motive, the law of love my rule.

O thou God of all grace, make me more thankful, more humble;
Inspire me with a deep sense of my unworthiness arising from the depravity of my nature, my omitted duties, my unimproved advantages, thy commands violated by me.
With all my calls to gratitude and joy may I remember that I have reason for sorrow and humiliation;
O give me repentance unto life;
Cement my oneness with my blessed Lord, that faith may adhere to him more immovably, that love may entwine itself round him more tightly, that his Spirit may pervade every fiber of my being.
Then send me out to make him known to my fellow-men.

"Humility in Service" from Valley of Vision