The Big F-I-V-E!!

January 23, 2005

To my dear grandson, William:

I never thought that the excitement and joy that I experienced when my son, Michael, was born, but you have already brought me the same as being my firstborn grandson. Born on a bitter cold day, you have given warmth to my heart.

You are a gift from above. The Lord has been so gracious to me in so many ways and now He has given me another healthy offspring. Oh, what a blessing!

You are also blessed in being born to a set of great parents, who will love and raise in a firm but fair way. This has been proven already in the way they are raising your big sister. You've been given the name, William, that means "strong." The historic meaning indicates one who is valiant protector or guardian. A strong individual! This does not necessarily mean physical strength as much as it does in personality and firmness of conviction in right and wrong. To follow this meaning, as you grow older and have understanding, you must be determined to remain firm in what is honorable, regardless of the cost. You have a challenge to follow at least two for whom you've been named after your Dad and Grandfather. If you follow their examples, you will grow up with the same steadfastness and firmness necessary.

As you grow older, you will discover the large and loving family that you've been born into. Your parents, sister, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and many cousins will give you lessons to learn. You can learn the meaning of hard work and devotion to completing task from your Mom and Dad. You can learn of the discipline and sacrifice that they are making to make your life better. Learn the appreciation for art and music from your grandmothers. Learn the ability to cope with and live with other siblings from your uncles and aunts on your Dad's side of the family. You can learn how to have fun in life and make the most of it from your Uncle Michael. You are fortunate to have all four of your great grandparents on your Mother's side of the family. Not too many people can say that. Even though they are getting older and loosing their health and/or minds, I hope that you will get to appreciate the love that they have given to your Mom. Listen when someone talks of them and their devotion to their family and devotion to God and His service. It will do you good to follow their footsteps.

Learn from your sister the friendliness toward others. Learn of her sincere interest in gathering knowledge. There will be times when she will cover you with too much protection and overshadowing of her dominance, but remember as the two of you grow, you will eventually be bigger and stronger. It will be your responsibility to look over her. I hope that the two of you will always be best of friends. Be as close as your Mother and Uncle Michael.

Also, remember that your Nana and I will continually be praying for you and be there when we can. Though there are miles between us, you are only a brief thought away. As grandparents, we have the right to spoil you and will do so within limits, but be assured that we seek your best.

Thank you for making this man a most happy and proud one.

Love you!
Popaw